a person hits someone leaves him unconscious on the road and comes back to hospital to apologize 3 hours later….
I had done a post on how humanity on the road is dead but what happened now has left me confused
Ya that’s what happened… one of our very close family friends son met with an accident last week, he was spotted lying unconscious on the road side by an acquittance (thank god for that)… the kind soul rushed him to the hospital and then called his parents… he is fine now though on bed rest for 4 weeks atleast as he has had multiple fracture in knee and gone through a surgery for the same but that’s besides the point…
so after these guys had reached hospital and very busy getting things sorted… confused as we didn’t even know how the accident has happened as the guy couldn’t remember anything… there comes a guy who comes and says sorry… his accident happened with my bike… he came in front way too fast and I couldn’t control… frankly my mind went blank and I didn’t even apply brakes… I knew he is badly hurt as he went unconscious at that time only but I had to go to office so I went off… and then later I realized that its not right and I went looking at the accident site and figured out that he has been brought to this hospital… please let me know if u need any help…
So what does one do? Get angry that he left the boy unconscious on the road when he needed help? atleast he could called from his cell phone… that doesnt take too much time or Feel good that he atleast has some conscious and guilt in him….
what do u feel?
I really feel angry at this guy for leaving when he was most needed.
He is coming to apologise just to clear his consious.Well, at least he has one! That’s good.
But what is done cannot be undone.
Hope this friend of yours gets well soon .
well I guess feel both….but not forget to register a case against him in any case…if seeing someone move infront of him makes him go blank…then he doesnt deserve to drive….he is a risk to many more people…not just your friend’s son.
whatever he may say…its a clear case of Hit and Run.
You should give him a complete piece of your mind, so that he will never ever do anything like this again.
Maybe in front of a lot of people too, which will embarrass him!
Lodging a FIR is completely useless in this country!
Both. Well at least he has a conscience. I agree with Aathira, lodging an FIR is completely useless. What did this friend’s family do?
i felt the same…. very angry… I was not there when he came to the hospital i dont know what i would have done
thanks for the wishes
i agree with u… he doesnt deserve to drive… I agree that the guy i am talking abt drives fast too but still what this behavior of not being able to press brakes and then leaving the person on road alone
but then as others have said i agree that filling a FIR in this country is useless too
i wish i was there when that guy came… in things like this my friends are too mild and soft spoken i would have give him nicely….
what he did was inhuman man… and i am not even talking abt the accident i am just referring to his running post that
ya he has but what good it is after all this… just think if that known person wouldnt have come how long would he be lying on the road…
they didnt do anything… they are too soft for doing anything
If I were even the mother of this young guy who was hit, I would have forgiven him. See, coming to admit one’s guilt requires some courage. That he could muster enough courage is enough proof that he meant well. Just think the effort and courage required to go back to the scene of the mishap, then trace where the injured guy has been taken-is immense. I think of the mindset of the guy who is guilty.
Yes, anger is but natural in the minds of the injured-boy’s people, but just think, what if the guilty guy had not returned at all? Kya kar lete uska? He is surely at fault for not having found some medical aid for the injured person. But remember, an average guy would run away from the scene, never to be found again.
First of all, i want to wish a speedy recovery to your cousin.
Secondly, I still feel, he was kind enough to come back and apologize, knowing, there would be family members and he could be hurt, but he had courage. There are so many people on the road, who hit and forget about it, not even bothered, what happened to the other guy. Only if there own vehicle is hit and damaged, they would stop to get the insurance info and file a report. Coming out from personal experience. So don’t think bad, but good…thank him and let him go, at least he offered too…
i agree with ur point and thats why this whole post but tell me one thing is this guilt enough to cover up… god forbid if the kind soul who brought him to the hospital wouldnt have seen him then what? God knows for how long he would have been lying on the road and I shudder at the thought of amount of damage that could have been done
though i dont deny the courage that he must have mustered later…
just the fact that people do hit and run the person coming back after 4 hrs becomes right is it?
i agree with u on all the facts that u have said but does that make them right