The other day I was coming back from the airport and infront of me I saw a car touching a kinetic and it fell down… and the car guy just drove away without bothering anything about the person who has fell down… I couldn’t get myself to do the same so stopped my car in the side and went to the girl… I asked her if she needs any help… thankfully she wasn’t hurt much atleast no bruises etc… (rest she’ll anyway know next day morning…) when I came back to my car I observed that everyone is giving me dirty looks…I couldn’t understand why so I just shrugged and kept walking towards my car and then one guy shouted at me and said…. Gaadi chalani nahin aati tou mat chalaya karo… accident kar diya na (if u dont know how to drive please dont drive)
Then I understood all the dirty looks are because people think that I did the accident… its not in our DNA to think that someone could have actually stopped the car to help the person who has fallen down… how strange right? One of the most basic thing like humanity has become so distant to us…. Or was it because I was a female driving and they assumed that I would have done the accident…. In both the case it makes me wonder when will the attitude of the people change…
What u do think it was?
On a happy note I finally found a baby sitter for my son and I am going back to work full time tmrw… my son likes her and currently I guess that was the most important thing 🙂 now just hoping she stays…..
Cool, you finally found a baby sitter. You can already see a reward being sent your way for the good deed.
U did a good job:), congrats !, i also feel very bad when people dont help, but i have seen the other side also, like my dad always helped and so many times people exploited him and kept coming for some monitary help etc.But still we cant change ourselves for a few people.
and i am happy to know that u have got a baby sitter, see my cook has also left without even tellig me and after taking the advance:), they are just like that.
some morons dont even bother to take a look after hitting people.. bloody reckless people… You did something good… the mindset of people is always tuned to believe that if u stopped, u r guilty… sad…
didnt think of it that way… anyways good but right 🙂
these people irritate me to the core… I agree with u its the mindset… but it needs to be changed somehow for us to become a better society
Indian Home Maker said:
Hat’s off to you, glad you stopped to help 🙂
I can imagine how annoying it must have been! You should tell them, next time, “It’s because of such reactions that people don’t stop and help each other, I am doing something good and you are assuming I caused her to fall?”
Indian Home Maker said:
PS Congrats about the baby sitter 🙂
ya I guess we should do that but will it really serve any purpose? and ya thanks its such a relief
I am so glad that you got a babysitter. Its really nice of you to stop to help the girl. Ignore the dirty looks. You know you did right, that is all that matters.
You did a wonderful job. No one would do that. But I am really proud of you. Thanks for sharing it with us. It reinforces my own faith in doing such stuff on the roads.
Yes, you got the dirty looks cos u were guilty of stopping and you gave the impression that you were the one who did it.
That is why i said I am proud of you. You risked those looks.
Keep it up.
And congrats on finding the baby sitter.
u did the right thing… thats how we r gonna rise our societies to a status when they will understad humanity… examplify is the best way…
thanks… i agree
and welcome to my space