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The most important years really

I went to an observation session at the Montessori that I have applied for Ojas today and I was really impressed by the whole place, the process they follow, the happiness floating around, the teachers etc etc… guys pray for that Ojas gets through it… but one thing that really stayed with me till now is something that I read on the notice board today… how very simple and how very true…. read on to believe

ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN

All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school. These are the things I learned:

Share everything

Play fair.

Don’t hit people.

Put things back where you found them.

Clean up your own mess.

Don’t take things that aren’t yours.

Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody.

Wash your hands before you eat.

Flush.

Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.

Live a balanced life – learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.

Take a nap every afternoon.

When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.

Be aware of wonder.

Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.

Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup – they all die.

So do we.

And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned – the biggest word of all – LOOK.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere.

The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all – the whole world – had cookies and milk at about 3 o’clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.

[Source: "ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN" by Robert Fulghum.]

Comments on: "The most important years really" (49)

  1. Me first…. Reading the post now

  2. Brilliant is all I have for this one… I so wish If I would have written something like this.

  3. I m sure Ojas will get through it. Awww he will start going to school soon! hope he enjoys it there.

  4. i’m praying honey…my little charmer will get through a school he deserves to be in and if this the right one he will get into it. will chant for him.

  5. all the best for u n oju as he starts this journey..
    but why will he not get into it? is the application process that tough or there are way too many ppl n less no of seats?

  6. Monika: Did you like the montessori system? I also went for an observation session last month and was pretty impressed by their creative yet subtle ways of teaching. I hope Ojas gets through this.

    • oh yes i have always been a fan of montessori method and i am very clear in my mind that i want to send ojas to a montessori and this is my first choice if he doesnt get thru in this I have another set lined up

  7. i loved the post…very nice and meaningful things..:)..all the best to your kid..:)

  8. Well said…I hope Ojas enjoys himself and all the best to him…

  9. Looks like we actually learn all our life lessons in kindergartedn and then kind of stop learning :) Best wishes to your Ojas.

  10. All we need is to apply these in life :)
    Gud luck Mons … I so wish Oju will get thru :) Hugs to u :)

  11. myamusingmind said:

    Great ! Where did u apply ?

  12. Thats so very wonderful, Monu !!!! I think certain things can apply to even elders !!!

    All the very best to Ojas !!! He’ll surely get into a good Montessori !!!! :)

  13. Congrats on the spicy saturday pick !!!!!!! :D :D :D :D

  14. Simple yet so true,

    Congrats on the Blogadda pick Monika. :)

  15. Congrats on the Blogadda pick…

  16. The_Inspired said:

    Beautiful one, Monika.

    My prayers and blessings for Ojas, for starting his school life. So when is he starting?

    Congrats on the blogadda pick!!!!

  17. Loved the post :)
    And Congrats on the BlogAdda pick! :)

  18. How did I manage to miss this post? This is one of those things I would like to put up in my house, and look at it every once in a while. Lovely Post Mon!

  19. Hey Monu .. Congrats on the blog-adda pick :)

  20. hi,

    loves this blog post of urs. first time in here.

    thru simplicity even in kindergarten, we can learn many things. true !
    children are so pure and true. don’t bother themselves with the skin colors, material things in life or even other life classifications.

    ‘Pretty much all the honest truth-telling there is in the world is done by children ‘ >Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr

    i ever worked as a pre-school montessori teacher for almost a year. Saw by myself how these small people teach me about many wisdom and fun in my life. Felt so amazed by how their nature grow.

    and i do believe as this quote say :
    ‘there are no seven wonders of the world in the eyes of a child. There are seven million’ >Walt Streightiff

    ur Oja’s will be just fine there. :)

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