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Losing for a cause

Note : This post has been in my draft for 3 days now and after a lot of courage I am publishing it now… guys be nice to me

I have been battling with my weight for quite sometime now and most of the regular readers know that, now how serious I have been can be questioned I agree… but I have been trying and I can say that we honesty to myself and I think that is all that matters…

For the last one year or so I have been trying to do gymming, brisk walking, GM Diet, 7-day all liquid detox diet and what not… I had joined Fitness one Trim program only to loose 5kgs in 3 months :(

Now let me get into a little history here, its not that I dont loose weight at all… the problem is gain what I have lost right back.. my gym instrustor calls it a yo-yo effect… I will loose one week and gain the next

But most of all the problem with me is my medical history… which is no less longer than ramayana I think…. In Jan2005 I was detected with Uterine Fibroids after endless cycles of bad menstural cramps and monsetours flow… and hence I underwent a  Myomectomy after 3 strong shots of GnRH

About a year and a half later in a routine yearly health checkup I was detected septate uterus and once again underwent a laproscopic surgery for its removal

Then God smiled on me and I conceived but I had a very difficult pregnancy during which I had to  take harmonal injections and supplements for about 4.5 months and also 3 shots of steroids as the doctors were half expecting a premie… When I delivered I breathed a sigh of relief thinking that now the good times start but alas God had different plans for me…

During pregnancyI had a wrist pain known as the carpal tunnel syndrome which is very common in pregnancy and for the unfortunate 5% continues post delivery too… needless to say the pain continued for me… and after a battery of tests I was comfirmed as a likely case of what my doctor called as a typical case of post partum Rheumatoid… and hence subjected to a series of steriods

As if that was not enough I was detected as having gall bladder stones too…

Ok enough of sadness and frustation in the post, good news is this that the earlier all problems have obs gone and for the last two I have switched to homeopathy and that means the end of the dreaded steriods and now when that happened I thought of getting at the task of loosing weight with all my energies…

So on the suggestion of my gym instructor a some friends I met a dietcain yesterday, Anju Sood is someone who stays very close by and is PhD in Nutrition… And I think I liked her from the word go… she had asked me to bring the medical history and she seem to understand everything there, she discussed everything with me after taking my weight, height etc…

Now I have never been comfortable putting the nos and all in open but I think I need to do this now and Priyanka and Muchkin’s mom have given me courage too… so here it goes

Height – 161 cm

Weight – 94.3 kgs

BMI – 36.4

Now the ideal weight for anyone my age and height is about 60 kgs…but after a lot of discussion and delebration with the dietician and the gym instructor we have all agreed that currently we would target for somewhere around 75kgs-80kgs and then give the body time to adjust to the new weight so that it doesnt revolt… then after being in that weight for about 4 months or so and will start the further reduction and will see how it goes…

Also both of them seem to agree that the medicines might take some time to flush out of the system and hence after the one month we will take stock of the situation and if there is very little weightloss it might just be that I would not be ready for the weightloss right now in which case we would postpone this whole excersie for 3 months and till such time I would be continuiting my brisk walks and maintaince diets…

So guys wish me luck, this month is crucial for me… I want to be fit again… I am fed up carrying so much excess weight around… I am fed up of the vicous circle that it has become now… not healthy because of wieght and not able to lose weight because of health…. will do weekly updates on this.

And here is the diet details for those who are intersted,She takes a lot of things in consideration while making the diet urlifestyle, eating habits, blood group and family medical history…

General Instructions:

  • Morning on getting up : 1-2 glasses of lukewarm water + 1/2 lemon + 2 drops of honey
  • Drink about 3 ltrs of water a day
  • eat 3-4 fruits a day (not all permitted :) )
  • Can eat 8-9 Marie biscuits in a day
  • For making rotis atta should always be made with 50% whole wheat + 50% oat bran
  • No sugar – can use 5-6 tablets of sugar free natura if I want
  • Dinner – to be finished by 7:30-8:00 pm
  • light stroll for 15 mins immediately after dinner
  • exercise as per the workout plan atleast 5 days a week on days that u cant do brisk walking for 30 mins

For the first 8-days she has put me on Oat Bran negative balance diet

  • bed tea + 2 marie
  • Breakfast  – 2 stuffed paranthas/big bowl of namkeen dalia/sandwisch with 3-4 slices of bread
  • Mid morning 1.5 hrs – 2 hrs after breakfast – fruit
  • Lunch – 3-4 rotis + subzi + salad
  • Evening tea – tea/coffee/fresh lime/tender cocunut water + Marie
  • Dinner – 2 roti + subzi + salad

And anytime I am hungry inbetween I can eat my quota of fruit and marie biscuit.. I cant take dairy products or pulses for 8 days after which the diet will be revised..

Keeping my fingers crossed lets see how it goes… the first target is 3-4 kgs in one month

http://www.ceche.org/communications/lady-irwin/lady-irwin.html

Comments on: "Losing for a cause" (64)

  1. You go girl!! All the best! ((hugs))

  2. Ebullient Goof said:

    Wow! And Wow! I can only admire you for being so open and honest about yourself Monika. If you are determined, that is half the battle won, trust me when it comes from someone, who is fighting the same battle, I was very very close to your current weight, and I know its a hard fight, but believe in yourself Monika, and nothing absolutely nothing is impossible.

    • monikamanchanda said:

      thanks goofy (i am going to call u that hope its ok :) ) i hope it is

  3. Good luck! I’m sure u’ll rock , and in no time put sexy slim pics of u here :D

  4. I just want to say at the beginning, I understand. I have been battling with my weight for almost my entire adult life and more so since my younger son was born. It’s a struggle…both, physically as well as emotionally.

    You’ve taken some excellent steps and I’m sure the results will show. Good luck and hang in there. And anytime you want a pep talk, or a shoulder to lean on, I’m there…

    • monikamanchanda said:

      hey M4 thanks lady… u know thats the thing that rocks abt blogging the most the support we get on every issue

      hugs

  5. all the best Mon… i am sure it will show results.

  6. All the best, Monika! I am sure you will achieve your desired results. Take care

  7. darling – wishing u all the luck :) I know it’s hard but with a bit of hard work and determination – you can do it!

    • monikamanchanda said:

      thank u darling… to keep the determination going is why i have put up everything here loud and clear

  8. All the best dear! :)

    Hugs! :)

  9. All the very best. And I really admire your courage and determination :)
    You rock.

  10. Best of luck Monica :)

  11. Go go go monu…. !!!! we will do it this time… the diet is going home to biwi…

    • monikamanchanda said:

      yes we will do it… hey this diet only for 8-days haan

      for rest watch out on friday

  12. sumana said:

    All the very best monika. Just keep up the hope and keep going. I think you are in the right direction.

  13. Dear God, I had no idea about your medical history. I can relate with the bad cramps because of my endometriosis too.

    I am glad to hear that you are taking steps to reach a healthier you. When I started my weight loss regime, it was mostly vanity but now as I read up more on it I realize that its not imp to be of a particular size or weight but more so to be the healthiest possible “you”.

    I think you and your Doc have drawn up a very good plan. Slow and steady is the way to go. I know because I used to be very impatient about losing weight. And don’t worry about the numbers, they are just that. And we are here to egg you on right ? :)

    Hugs!

    I loved the roti-oat-bran suggestion! Infact I was about to do a post on general fitness and some principles.

    • monikamanchanda said:

      oh gosh those cramps i dont even want to think abt them anymore…

      and thanks for the support girl… hugs

      and ya looking forward to that fitness post :)

  14. Goodluck Monika. You will succeed. I love how comfortable your post sounded. And you seem very honest about this issue.

  15. Battling that kind of a medical history needs courage :)
    Keep up the spirit and become fighting fit! All the best.

    • monikamanchanda said:

      thanks it does ya hoping to become fighting fit i like that

      BTW welcome here :)

  16. right here with you honey :)

  17. Priyanka said:

    Sorry to hear that you had to go through so many health problems but good to know that they are all in control now. And you have taken charge of your weight now.
    Thats a very cool idea to mix oat bran + wheat to make rotis (I do it for Ash, don’t know why I didn’t think of doing that for myself). I too drink warm water+lemon juice+ honey every morning, helps to clear out the system :)
    I hope you succeed in your diet and work outs, and achieve your goals. I’ll be here cheering for you :)

    • monikamanchanda said:

      do u mix oat bran for ash or oats, i mix oats for ojas because i think oat bran has too much fiber for them

      ya that water sure does help and also jeera water and methi water i have heard… i think we shld all share our weight loss tips :D

      and hey thanks for cheering :)

  18. Oh god … had no idea about ur medical history…. steroids and hormone therapy is painful…. glad u are out of it now… staying healthy is the key and Good Luck! And all the best!

    Am right here with u gal and will be cheering for u :)

    Hugs and Take care! :)

    • monikamanchanda said:

      i know they leave ur system so bloody shaken… and hey thanks for the support :)

      hugs

  19. btw terrific header!

  20. monika said:

    All the best girl.
    You’ve had a tough time medically. Hugs to you.

    & hey I loved your header. So creative & fun!!

    • monikamanchanda said:

      ya hoping it is a past now :) hugs

      and hey thanks for the header goofy made it :)

  21. Like they say Monika, well begun is half done. If you’ve made up your mind to kick ass of the unrelenting fat cells, you’re on the right track. You’ve been through a lot and the body speaks for it. Give yourself time and love who you are. The body will also respond.

    • monikamanchanda said:

      “Give yourself time and love who you are. The body will also respond.” loved that D…

      thanks

  22. My god, I can understand how things had ended up in a vicious circle for you.
    But now that determination and commitment for self has come in, I am sure you would achieve what you are looking at…..

    Best of Luck for the regime…

  23. U r one brave girl! Go Monu :)

  24. myamusingmind said:

    Hats off to your energy and enthusiasm after so many issues ..hugs and all the best !

  25. You brave, brave thing. Way to go, girl.

  26. Monika, all the very best to you.
    You really must have suffered with all the multiple health problems. You are very brave to be writing about your struggle here :)

    • monikamanchanda said:

      thanks COS this is a place where i want to bare my heart… and ya welcome here :D

      • jayanthi venkatesh said:

        hello monika…
        im new here, and wish u good luck in ur goals. Im also struggling to conceive for the past 9 years now and have also been advised to lose weight. I was beginning to get depresse, lonely, desperate, and hopeless and today i came across an article with “anju sood” in the news papers today. So i did this quick search and found this site. I live in bangalore. Can u please tell me where and when i can meet Anju Sood? her phone numbers/mail id/address ? it will be of great help. Thank you so much in advance. Once again, i wish u all the best.

        regards,
        jayanthi

  27. you go girl!!
    :)

    hugs!

  28. Good Luck… You have set your heart to it, I am sure your body will follow…

  29. [...] when I started last week : 94.3 [...]

  30. [...] marked the most important month of the year with me taking a pledge to get my health back… to lose 20 kgs out of which I proudly say that I have lost 10, not too fast but I am good [...]

  31. I read your blog 2day. I’m staying in bangalore. I’m trying to lose weight like you, So could you please give me Anju Sood’s address and phone number. And good luck to you.

  32. S.Vejetha Anand said:

    Hi Monika,
    First n foremost congratulations……i cud understand what u would have gone through and how great u would be feeling now….cas even i was sailing in the same boat untill i met Anju my angel….my initial weight was 108kgs and now i weigh 83kgs and all this was possible within a span of hardly six months all thanks to Anju….bieng a beautician n makeup artist i lacked cofidence cas of my weight n bulges but not anymore….i laugh at myself when i look back…the best part about anju is she is so polite ,caring motivating n never cribbs whn we are stuck with pleauted weight she understands….n guess wat i used to hide my bulges in salwars n dark shades to play it safe n guess what she made it mandatory for me to wear westren clothes n now i confidently carry them….my friends on face book couldnot recognise my pictures they asked me if it was some kind of graphic effect???:)
    am still with anju and my target is to reach 65kgs,so wish me luck n i know i will…n all the very best to you aswell…
    take care,
    Regards,
    vejetha

  33. Hi Monica!

    I see i am a little late in seeing your blog.. I was researching on Anju Sood and stumbled upon your blog.

    So how did the diet go? how has it worked? was it a good decision to join her?

    Hope everything went super well for you! :)

    Cheers!
    Sonal

  34. shalini said:

    hi monica,
    wish you all the best .anju is a blessing in disguise.follow her advice n you will realise that you have achieved your goal in no time.i’d been with anju for a short time span,n i know for sure that you are not far from your goal if you have her to help,advice n motivate you.best of luck dear.
    shalini.

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