Nirbhaya

2009 March 6
by monikamanchanda

Ok so yes I am stuck on being fearless

I still remember the day about 7 years back when I had decided to move to Banglore there were only two things that everyone said… the first i think everyone can guess… oh the weather is lovely and then came the next its a very safe and peaceful city….

I remember the time when I was staying at The Chancery on Lavelle Road and I used to take late night walks all by myself, enjoying the lovely wind in my face…

Post that intial 15 days I moved to a terrace studio apartment in Indira Nagar and stayed all by myself… I did change three houses post that but all of them I stayed alone for about 3 yrs till I got married… there were times when I used to walk to work (about a 1.5 km away) at nights and in early mornings… sometimes take an auto all alone and I never felt any need to worry…

And then this happened and it tore me to pieces, as I have written here too I was scared for months some past of me still is…

And now this s growing leaps and bounds… My city has changed and it pains me, my heart bleeds for it…

Like I mentioned in the previous post its high time we do something about it, the PPC and the blank noise people are indeed doing something about it…

They are doing a Fearless Karnataka / Nirbhaya Karnataka, find the details here and here

There is also an Facebook event http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/event.php?eid=68888473361 for those oh u who are on FB…

These are some of the posters they have designed for the protest…I really liked them



All of the pics are here

I miss my city in which I was able to go around fearless… do u? lets do something together to make the city nirbhaya again…

PS: I wanted to mention this but dont want to do a separate post…. there is an internation missing women’s day being planned against female foteicide on 8th march… details here
lets do our bit

PPS: Edited to add u can sign a petition against attacks on women in blore here

also I just checked out the Sita Sena site and so loved their campaign with whistles… Now I do have a problem with their name but this seems good… very good…

Phew I dont think I have ever edited a post this much :)

11 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 March 6
    Indyeah permalink

    whew!a long list of links there:)and all of them worth it:)
    thanks Monika

    and I just read your post on the incident that happened…it was so scary to read ..and what a B######!I mean what the?
    ((hugs))we will fight back..in our own ways ,the way we think is best..in little ways everyday..

  2. 2009 March 7
    Monika,Ansh permalink

    Whoa…..i did not know about many of these initiatives. Thanks for pointing them out.

  3. 2009 March 7
    Surbhi permalink

    LOL… Sita Sena is just the answer to the Ram Sena b******s!

    BTW, you’ve been tagged at http://the-xx-factor.blogspot.com/2009/03/playing-tag.html, so drop in and write on!

    And ((((hugs))) to my darling Ojas!

  4. 2009 March 7
    Piper .. permalink

    hey lots of links and thanks for each one of them! Shall try and spread the word too.

  5. 2009 March 7
    Piper .. permalink

    about the incident you mentioned, there are psychos like him all over, Monica. They are literally in need of medical help. Its such a scary thing really. Hugs. I hope you`re able to come out of the shock soon.

  6. 2009 March 7
    Indian Home Maker permalink

    A very Happy and safe Women’s Day to us :)

    We need these initiatives… every effort counts!

    I have added a Hero factory creation (Thank You!).. in today’s post.

  7. 2009 March 9
    Mystic Margarita permalink

    Thanks much for the links – like IHM says every initiative counts and makes a difference in its own way.

  8. 2009 March 9
    Monika permalink

    @Indyeah,
    thanks… hugs back… its important to realise the meaning of this and fight back the means could be any

  9. 2009 March 9
    Monika permalink

    @Piper,
    thanks….I know what u mean afterwards i was told many such similar incidents by my friends and one of them happened with a 10-yr old… these guys are sick and u are right they need medical help

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